Friday 3 July 2015

Guide to moving in with your partner

There comes a time in most relationships when you and your partner will decide whether you should take things to the next level. Moving in together is a serious step in any relationship. Whether you and your partner have decided to rent or buy together, there are a few things to keep in mind to ensure the move goes as smoothly as possible. Luckily for you, Cheapest Removalists are ready to help with fast moves. This is our guide to moving in with your partner:

Money matters

Money can be one of the main causes of tension in relationships. This is why you and your partner need to sit down together before you find a place and discuss your finances. Draw up a realistic budget. Take into account the cost of living, rent/mortgage, bills, utilities, food, transport, clothing, and any other expenses. Work out what you can afford to pay and what your partner can afford to pay. Discuss who will pay what and how you will divide expenses. Be honest and encourage your partner to do the same. Don't jump into anything you can't afford.

Work out what you BOTH want
Once you've worked out your budget, talk with your partner about the type of home you want. Be prepared to compromise. Your dream home may not be your partner's dream home, but if you discuss your ideas openly, you are likely to find something you are both happy with. Discussion points may include location, property size, and home features. Compile a checklist of must-haves and things that are negotiable. Be willing to negotiate, it is a necessary part of every successful relationship. Building and strengthening your negotiation skills early on will help ensure your relationship operates smoothly. Be cautious though, over-compromising can also lead to negative feelings. Try to figure out a happy medium and you're sure to find something you both love.

Don't get ahead of yourself
Moving in together is a huge step in any relationship and is certainly not something to be rushed into. Ask yourself whether you are ready, both emotionally and financially. Talk honestly to your partner about any concerns you have regarding the move and discuss whether moving in together will strengthen or weaken your relationship. Before jumping in to anything, we recommend trialing your potential living situation.

Ready to take the next step and move in with your partner? Congrats! Give the helpful staff at Cheapest Removalists a call today on 1300 299 969 and let us help you with fast moves!

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